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Give a break to your Hesitations

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Hesitation is our fear or nervousness before doing something, which sometimes stop us from doing it. Hesitation actually happens when we are not certain about something, but the point is until we didn't give a shot or try to do something we will always hesitate there will never be a start. It happens with many of us like when someone delivering a speech, performing a dance, or wants to say something or wants to keep any point of view but something from inside stop us that is our hesitation. It happens with me also when I started my blogs I also hesitate it takes me almost 3 days to start with blogging even after opening an account a feeling of hesitation if my English was not OK, if there are grammatical errors, if I don't write well but I have to do it and then I give a break to my hesitations and started with my blogs and today happy too with people comments and appreciations. You know, when any idea clicks in mind we should give a shot to it otherwise we will always

Detox negativity from life

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Detox means removal of toxins from our body, cleansing the body from the waste which is of no use and harmful too, in the same ways  detoxification of negativity from our life is also important to keep our mind healthy and mentally fit. What is negativity? Negativity is an attitude, feeling or a thought which consistently happen to us and expect to us for something negative to happen. Mind is full of thoughts and at every nano second a new thought generates in mind, a negative or a positive. Negative thoughts come again and again, lowers our confidence plus leads to mental agony too. Have you ever thought Why negative thought comes? The first of all the main point is when we are idle we have nothing to do, then we think a lot and most out of it is negative only and it's a saying too " An idle mind is devil's workshop, so we should always try to involved us in some work.  Another point here works is the environment means our surrounding where we survive or the type

"What will people say" a fatal disease

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There are some diseases which gradually leads to death or disastrous health, One of them is psychological disease  "What will people say "which gradually destroys the human thoughts, losses the human will to take decisions or to do something which they really want to do or achieve, People get affect by it: What will people say, whenever we are trying to achieve something or strive for our goals, We get affected by people thoughts, sayings, excuses and started thinking Are we doing right?, Is our decision correct?, Can I do it? What if people see? What will people say? such thoughts when come in mind it mislead us from our focus, goals, our decisions. The main thing is we should not get affected by such thoughts because the real deal is people have no job, they are no one to stop us from achieving something which we want to. The goal is yours not others , The work is yours not others. It's a saying "When you have two ears, use both of them listen from one ear keep

Change the attitude towards life

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There are two sides of coin, in the same way everything or every matter or any point in life has two aspects, it depends on us how we look towards it, which side of coin we choose."Everyday may not be good but there is something good in Everyday". It all depends on our attitude, How we perceive the things. I know everybody has some or the other problem in life like in business, relationships, financial, health, social any kind of the problem arise anytime. But the main point is how you look at your problems, If you feel it more and more it will get bigger for you, situations get more worse if the attitude is not correct and positive. There is a great example I have regarding this, I met a lady in our neighbourhood new in our colony, she is very positive lady and the attitude she maintains make fond of her because from 2 years ago she met with an accident complete disaster her car got destroyed She got complete stitches from her face to head there is problem in her left

Ups and Downs of life

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There is a proverb " if there is no ups and downs in your life it means you are dead" this line speaks a lot, life is about great joys and great losses it all depend on us How we deal with it? , Even ECG shows the ups and downs which means you are alive and going through the situations of life, enjoy your ups and have courage for your down, Today I am just sharing a brief story of  a lady whom i met whose life is full of ups and down  and what have she gone through. She was married to a rich young smart man, love her a lot have very good and small family with two kids one boy and a girl. Suddenly, one day lady's husband got a attack and he went in coma for almost 2 years ,The chapter of life got completely changed from a happy family to sad moments. She used to go daily hospital early in the morning at 7 and sit beside her husband bed whole day leave at 7 in the evening, have never seen a day in these two years just a morning and a evening almost after 2 years there

FOMO ( Fear of missing out)

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What is fear of missing out? Many have many answers to it some says not being with friends on events, not get recognised at work place or not being a part of someone's post on social media and many more. FOMO is actually a anxiety that an exciting or interesting event may currently be happening elsewhere and  I am not the part of it often aroused by posts seen on social media. The word officially added in oxford dictionary in 2013. Fear of missing out it just getting missed from the place or position where we should or like not doing interesting things like others. It comes to mind especially when we scroll the social media apps and finding people doing interesting things going to see cricket match in a stadium, having a scrumptious dinner at 5 star hotel, making vacations on beaches, doing shopping in the best event in town and a new one these days taking a video status with loud music in a car with perfectly filtered photography with the emojis to add on the mo

Relationships

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Relationships a very big word and have very huge meaning too..  What this word makes us feel when we think about relationships, there are many relations in life we come across but from them how many relations we actually live with? Today I am writing this blog makes me think about many relations which I have gone through in my life, My mind is taking a roller coaster of so many relations of my life being a mother, a wife, a friend, a daughter, a sister etc.but which is the best I live or we live in our lives,  Every relation comes with a responsibility but the main thing is how we deal with such responsibilities, Sometimes we fail sometimes we pass. Lets take a Husband Wife relationship: Husband and wife relation is just like a car and a fuel or battery and phone or pen and ink these all things are waste without each other same ways husband and wife are together important to each other, the major part of this relation is trust , if it is not relation is useless .Trust g